Question: I Am A Wife Married To An Ordained Minister Who Teaches The Bible Every Sunday. But I Work With A Homosexual Man Who Claims My Husband Sends Naked Picks Of Himself To The Homosexual Man’s Homosexual Friends Social Media Account Often. What Should I Do?

Donald Bohanon:  Let me start off by saying it’s virtually impossible to live a righteous life as the Bible defines it ,if you don’t have God’s Holy Spirit, and the only way to receive God’s spirit is by obedience to God’s commandments and God’s word as a whole.

His word which emphasizes the importance of keeping the doctrine of God and Christ first (which includes obedience to all the commandments and God’s word as a whole) before receiving the Holy Spirit. A doctrine which clearly outlines Saturday as the Sabbath day and not Sunday…. 2 John 1:9-11.

Sadly and unfortunately many have bought into the false teaching of salvation by grace through faith only. And as a result, have been led astray from the true teachings of the Bible…And as a result of ignorance of God’s word, have cut themselves off from access to the Holy Spirit, which is absolutely essential to living a righteous life as God and his word define it. John 14:15-17, Acts 5:32. 2 John 1:9-11.

Unfortunately, I have heard of numerous instances of self-proclaimed ministers being exposed and caught in these kinds of situations. Some true some not.

But what I would suggest is asking your homosexual associate (not friend, because no homosexual is your friend while in that warped, twisted, spiritual condition) to get the photos from the accuser, ask them to provide all the photos and information regarding your husbands alleged homosexual exploits, and show them to you. If your husband is sending him all these photos’s he claims he has, he should have them at his disposal.

Don’t buy into the claim that he deleted them or some ridiculous claim like that. If the sexual deviant who is consumed and controlled, by his insatiable, perverted lust, so much so that it produces insanity as a result of demonic influence, can’t provide the numerous photos and proof he claims he has, rest assured, the sick sexual deviant, is probably lying.

There is no way he is going to delete his evidence, delete the proof of what he claims. It’s counterproductive, not rational or logical, and makes absolutely no sense to do that. When these types of individuals are so eager and determined, to out and expose professing Christians. He just doesn’t have it, if he can’t produce it.

Or your associate is lying, and he himself may be the culprit, and the one who is making the false claims, or receiving the photos. In any case, they should be able to provide the information they claim they have or have knowledge of it because it ultimately benefits their perverse sexual goals anyway.

So they would be more than happy, overjoyed and eager, to out, embarrass and expose, a minister who is constantly professing his righteousness, and provide irrefutable proof to prove their claims and expose that minister as a homosexual fraud. And if not rest assured they are probably lying, and don’t have the photos or any other information they claim they have.

 It’s also important to understand that homosexuals/bisexuals and lesbians or any other sexual deviant, should never be trusted based on their words alone. Because in all honesty, they are some of the biggest liars and manipulators on earth. Who are enslaved by their filthy lust, and that filthy lust, sadly and unfortunately, being the catalyst, that produces the very evil and diabolical behavior most of them engage in, and which is outlined in… Romans 1:26-32 .. 

Never believe anything they say unless they provide irrefutable proof to support their claims. If they can’t provide that proof believe nothing that comes out of their mouths. It’s important that you understand this. The sexual deviant may just have a strong sexual attraction to your husband, and in such cases, they will go to any lengths to satisfy that lust…..Psalms 1:1, 2 Timothy 3:13

And lying just happens to be something they engage in with impunity, without regard, and incessantly, in an effort to draw others into the lifestyle, and in order to satisfy their lust. Psalms 1:1, Romans 1:26-32, 2 Timothy 3:13.

With that being said I would still keep a close eye on his activities if I were you. The disturbing rise of numerous accounts of self-proclaimed “false ministers” being caught in these kinds of incidences requires vigilance on your part in such matters. But if found to be true, and they do provide evidence, do what’s outlined in God’s word..

But I don’t think you can just treat this as a simple act of infidelity, because a strong, perverse, sexual addiction, maybe the culprit, and may require a bit more than just marriage counseling.

But ultimately, if true, you must decide if you want to work to save the marriage, and run the risk of him possibly continuing to engage in behavior that could eventually be a threat, not only to your family and marriage stability but to your health as well, because of extremely high rates of aids in the homosexual community.

The Bible does justify divorce in some cases but that is a decision you have to make. And I’m sure you understand that once the trust is gone, it’s virtually impossible to get back.

The Bible says the wife is bound by the law as long as the husband lives, but the law says you shall not commit adultery, nor look on another man if you are a wife, or another woman if you are a husband, with lust in your heart. To do so is considered an act of adultery in God’s eyes….Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:27-28, 1 Corinthians 7:39. But good luck to you and may God provide the guidance you need.