Q&A: What Do You Think About Older Women Who Date And Or Marry Younger Men?

Question: Q&A: What Do You Think About Women Who Date And Or Marry Younger Men?

Donald Bohanon: Women can date or marry who they want I suppose if the age difference is not too extreme. But you must consider the level of maturity, loyalty, and commitment of the younger person in those circumstances. And if that is not there it can prove to be very problematic in the relationship over time. You have to also consider that the sexual activity can take a damaging toll on the older female body.

That’s why I don’t necessarily support older women dating younger men because of the lack of maturity and commitment of the younger person and also not understanding that as you get older the human body takes longer to recover and repair. That’s why you will see an older woman with a younger man and after a few months or so her body looks straight up and down, drooping, and has lost its curvature with an aged appearance to it, and that’s because in the act of sex, the female body is actually taking damage that it needs time to repair and recover from.

When a woman is younger she can have sex everyday, and even 3 or 4 times a day, and the female body will repair itself and immediately bounce back. But as you get older, that’s not the case. While the younger man may want to have sex several times a day and the older woman is all in for it, the damage that’s accumulating to the female body is not able to repair itself as quickly and efficiently.

And the body of the older female begins to sag and droop and lose its form, shape, curvature, and contour rather quickly because of it. The female body at that point is older and needs much more time to recover to repair the damage but it’s not getting enough time if the younger man wants sex all the time.

And, the older female body although willing, is not able to adjust to and repair the stress and damage that’s accumulating because the body as it ages needs much more time to recover from the damage. The relationship, over time, because of the physical, mental, and emotional stress can cause the older female to age more rapidly and suffer the effects of a type of multi-layered stress, overtime, because of it.

That can also cause the younger man to have a wandering eye because the older female is rapidly aging and breaking down right before his eyes. That’s just not a situation that’s conducive to a healthy, thriving, stable, long-term relationship in my opinion. Women can do what they want I suppose but that’s just my take on the matter and it’s supported by science.