Listen Up.

I’m not an individual who can be manipulated to behave in a way that’s in conflict with God’s word just to get next to you or so you can fulfill your selfish desires. I have never been a man who was the follower or subservient in any relationship I have always held onto the leadership role tightly with both hands. Because they didn’t know what I knew and they couldn’t see the things I saw. If you are trying to get to know me I would advise that you listen to me as opposed to individuals who know nothing about me. Because what they are telling you to do will more than likely undermine what you are trying to accomplish.

You can’t make demands with me simply because you’re beautiful because I’m no push over myself so forget what you heard. I come equipped with advantages, benefits, and gifts myself, you know? Christ said the plant/man or woman who is not planted by his father will be uprooted Matthew 15:13-14. And what that means is If that person doesn’t have the basic knowledge and understanding about the importance of keeping God and Christ doctrine which is obedience to the ten commandments and the Bible they will never receive the holy spirit so it will be virtually impossible for them to live up to the standard of righteousness outlined in the Bible. So when things get difficult in the form of trials and tests and pulls of the flesh, etc, they wont have the spiritual strength to bear it or withstand it… St John 14:15-21, Acts 5:32

So they will eventually fall by the wayside. I will give you one to two years tops, if that, and you will eventually be embracing worldly behavior and following what the world does as opposed to faithfully standing on the truths outlined in God’s word. That’s how it always happens when you reject what God says in his word but instead follow the false teachings and doctrines of men and women. If you reject the basic biblical truths outlined in the word of God then that means you reject God, and if you reject God I reject you as a companion. 2 John 9-11,

Unless you are willing to change your way of thinking and prove your obedience to God by following what’s clearly outlined in his word and if not I would advise you to move on with your life and don’t do yourself an injustice by harboring fantasies about what could be between us because it wont happen because your unwillingness to submit to God’s will makes us incompatible. 1 Corinthians 10:20-21, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18.

I think you may have the misconception that I’m longing for a beautiful woman so much so that I’m willing to do anything to get her and even compromise who I am to get her. But you have me completely mixed up with some whole other person. That’s not who I am. I stood on principle when I was living worldly but now its magnified and reinforced even more so.

So if I’m the only one in the relationship expected to follow God while you think you will be able do what you want to do the only thing I can tell you is good luck in life’s endeavors because I’m not the person for you. If you’re really serious start really obeying God and you will spark my interest. The way to my heart is through the true worship of God. You’re beautiful but beautiful alone is not enough for me. There are no hard feelings though, and I’m not trying to come across as rude or insensitive I only know how to be honest, blunt, and direct. But I will be praying for you though.