You have to keep your focus on God because women will try to play with your head by tugging you in different directions and try to make you question your decisions. Some will even try to separate you from God. So just keep your focus on God and you won’t stray from the beaten path. Don’t get me wrong I love women, but the point I’m making is if you are single and the woman or women are not following your righteous path you must let them go their way. And you must continue on your way. If it was meant to be by God it will be. But your loyalty must always be to God first.