Now keep in mind, she hasn’t asked you for anything but she is actually giving you gifts just to prove how committed she is to you. Because she says she understands your struggles and what you’ve been faced with because of your righteous message and how that has resulted in persecution that has hindered you. So she comes in and wants to take up the slack to help make life easier and ensure you reach your goals. Now a real man is going to want to reciprocate that affection but the woman is consistently telling the man not to worry about anything and not to feel obligated to do anything for her only to do things out of the goodness of his heart and to prove his affection if he’s driven to do it.
She says that she wants the man to understand out of the gate that it’s not about money with her she is only focused on proving that her interest transcends money and material things. Is the man in that case being used or loved by the woman? Now, personally as a man, I would never free-load off a woman or feel comfortable doing it. The man and the good in me (pause) just wouldn’t be comfortable doing it.
I personally would want to reciprocate. But this also tells me a lot about the woman. A woman who is solely focused on what a man can do for her is a complete turn-off. She actually feels that the only thing she needs to bring to the table is her and she doesn’t need to contribute in any other way financially or otherwise. Just a very selfish and materialistic person. I personally wouldn’t give that woman any serious consideration because when your money is gone, or when it’s time for her to step up to the plate to prove her loyalty and worth she will be gone.
She is obviously only there for the money or for what you can do for her. She has no substance or character. But a woman who is willing to go the extra mile to prove she is interested in you and not the money is a woman who opens my heart right up because she has proven she is willing to do as much for me as I am willing to do for her. I wouldn’t operate with any trepidation in a situation like that in terms of reciprocating because she has shown her sincere interest in me and not my money through her actions. She is a proven team player.